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Tuesday, January 25, 2011

dirty laundry part 1

i have spent the last couple of weeks listening to 2 people i love dearly drive each other crazy...All this started a couple of months ago when i made a huge step in my life and got hooked on the woman of my dreams(actually,this was like 4 days before.)Am very sure the ladies in question wont like what am about to say but it might teach others alot.
Like i said,this was 4 days before i made a life commitment to something that i wouldnt encourage anyone to do.There we were,6 girls in a friends house having a drink and enjoying the evening till someone suggested we play a game...truth or dare...women are generally very nosy and it became more of a truth game and some really brutal honesties were laid down on the table and drama really began to unfold...(years from now,i will still think of this day as one of my worst)...Normally am very level headed but this particular day,i was flipping and i thought i would go ballistic...when you are drunk and you are like me (jealous...unforgivimg...and oh so very quick to anger) you know there are some things that u dont care to hear...needless to say that what was said was painful to hear and even worse to address...am a strong believer in what u dont know cant hurt you and believe me,this was one of those days when you would rather not hear it.the need to say all this painful and heartbreaking things kept getting fuelled by the need to hurt as much as you had been hurt...if you dont want to know,dont ask!!!!anyway,the night ended on a very mad and sad note.We all decided to go out but never really went out.first we got to town to drop of 2 of our friends and dr.love drove off leaving her girlfriend (gorgeous) in town at 3 am with nowhere to go...and that was just the beginning of the issues.
In the next couple of days,another issue arose about dr.love cheating with one of our best friends and you can imagine the kind of conversations that were had during that period and let me tell u it was not pretty.The divide that was created in lesville was out of this world...friends insulting friends and taking sides in everything like this was world war and you needed allies...this was so bad coz it was two very close friends fighting...it turned out to be half true,dr love was sleeping with one of our best friends and that i guess really broke gorgeous.but in less than 2wks,she had forgiven her and they were working things out...AGAIN???

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