Introducing...

Drum rolls please…cheers and applause too…I introduce to you …Joy…

For the sake of this blog, I will call her Joy because she brings joy into my life, sunshine in my heart and warmth to my soul…also because she is a tomboy; it’s an irony of sorts.

Well, I promised that the story of joy had just begun right? Well, here goes the next chapter in that book..

Joy and I spent the rest of that week texting and calling everyday and I was for the first time in a very long time genuinely happy and very proud of myself (long time is to say like a year…soon I will be celebrating the first time D made me realize I was worth nothing to her (only this time I will be doing it in the loving and adoring embrace of Joy) and I started to believe it, but now I know my value).

She was out of town again till Sunday and so was I and when I got back to town, checking into a hotel she had already booked felt so good. This time, we had a blast, we had sex so many times I lost count but also got to talking and getting to know each other better and I realized I had a lot more in common with this girl than I would have cared to admit. She doesn’t know it either so please don’t tell her I said so, but we share a lot of the same likes and dislikes (maybe a match made in heaven?)That weekend was so much easier as Monday was my day off (my first in a long time) and in the morning I managed to derail her from going for dance practice till around 12 (I know, I know am bad influence)and when she came back at 2 and had more practice at 6,she left at 7 (no thanks to me by the way, she kept herself entertained with both my sets of lips and there is no way I was going to stop her…not that I wanted her to).And when she came in we  were at it till the wee hours of the morning, that should tell you I didn’t go to work on Tuesday and we went to my house that day…
My sis is one of those people whose opinions I really value and her approval of this girl was necessary as she had asked me to be her girlfriend (that was fast right? ...well, not really. In lezville, a week is enough to declare you’re in love and want to get married as I recently discovered when I went for my first AFRA meeting after so long) so when my sis gave me a thumbs up I was glad I had said yes! When we got to my neighborhood, we went to see a girl we both know that she used to have a thing with (I think) and I was so quiet she knew I was uncomfortable so we left (she can read minds???-a dream come true) and she met my bro who didn’t even flinch when she said hi (rare because he doesn’t really trust any of my friends till he sees them around a couple of times) and we got comfy in my room doing the things every mother hopes their daughter isn’t doing with another girl then I escorted her to the bus stop where we sat for 2hrs talking and laughing (she brings out the best in me). Then she went home and I went to bed!!!

Joy has many friends and girls she used to sleep with and they are all pretty cold to me (the girls that is) and I wondered why so I asked her and she said it’s because she has never really committed to any of them (that makes me feel so good about myself) but am not sure if it’s just something she says to make me feel good or if it’s true…But that’s something only time and patience will tell...

Now that i have updated on  what i have been upto (i need time to see what of interest will happen that i can write about-in relation to Joy),i might start giving you Lezville vibe...